Friday, 19 October 2012

4 Year Anniversary


















The eve of our 4 year anniversary and I'm lying in bed with Lee and we're discussing how 1000 days ago we would not have expected to be here, in our own flat (plus flatmate) in outer London.

I ruined this beautiful moment by saying:
'I wouldn't change anything about our 4 years... Oh wait, I'd actually change a fair amount of it, I can name several periods I'd change'

Lee was silent for a while then agreed. I then listed the times I'd tried to dump him in the past, being a massive commitment freak.

I came full circle and tried to cheer the situation up a bit by saying that all the experiences made our relationship what it is today.

We agreed and fell asleep.

Happy 4 years Lee, at least we both agree we'd change some things.

15 comments:

  1. Congrats on your anniversary! It's good that you're being real with each other that's definitely a sign of a strong marriage.

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    1. Thank Farrah! We're not married, just a long relationship! xxx

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  2. I can totally relate to this. Happy Anniversary :)x

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    1. thank you Kelsey, at least I'm not alone :) xxx

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  3. Haha, this is brilliant! Totally something I'd do.. happy anniversary you crazy kids x

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  4. Aww, happy 4 years! Me and my other half are coming up to our 3 years, and we've had our own ups and downs. Any couple that insists it's only been good times are not in a healthy relationship in my opinion! It's all about getting over those tougher times - I was a commitmentphobe as well at first!

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    1. I agree, the ups and downs make it all the more exciting and memerable xxx

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  5. Aww that's a tad depressing but I'm glad you guys worked your problems out and have had a lovely four years together :)

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    1. Haha thank you Hazel, although it started off depressing, we made it come full circle (thank goodness) xxx

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  6. Aw! Every relationship has ups and downs -- getting through it makes you stronger! x

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  7. Congratulations to you both on four years! Here's to many more xoxox

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  8. Aww at least you agreed on something! Happy anniversary xxx

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